Celebrity Affairs

It seems everywhere I turn, I can't help but encounter news about a certain CIA Director's affair turned scandal. And you know what? I couldn't possibly care less about it.

Why are we so bombarded with "news" about the fact that this many, and any other powerful figure, has an affair? What does this matter? From the little bit that I've gathered about the man, he seems to be a hard working, dedicated man that did a great job while serving as a General and as the director of the CIA. You know what this story proves about him? He had the opportunity to have an affair with a woman that was writing a biography about him.

I'm going to guess if she's writing a book about him, they're going to spend a lot of time together. These two probably corresponded a lot. These two probably spent a long time talking and getting to know each other. What started out as a respect probably was easily turned into a school-girl-type crush. There was opportunity. So they started to have an affair. And now it seems this man's career is over? For having a consensual relationship with a woman? Really? This is news? The woman wasn't trying to extract military secrets out of him. They were just sleeping together.

Yes, if this affair happened while the Petraeus was in the military it would be a violation of the military code of conduct. But is having an affair illegal? No. Is this a terrible thing for his wife to be caught up in? Of course. But is this news? No. What happens in this man's personal life is not, by any standard, news.

And for that matter, I don't care about any actor, musician, politician, teacher, or street performer that has an affair with a consenting adult. Because that isn't news. News stations are so oblivious to real tragedies happening in the world but they can't miss a story about someone even remotely well known that was unfaithful. There are still thousands of people suffering from Hurricane Sandy yet they are almost nonexistent in the news. That news is so last week. There are millions suffering from violence, starvation, poor healthcare, lack of freedom and this is what is plastered all over every major news organization? There is a looming fiscal cliff, a war that might be ending soon, Guantanamo Bay still open, and a Congress that refuses to work together in our own country and this is what people want to focus on?

Maybe it isn't just politics that need to be revamped, maybe the priorities of Americans need to be changed if we want to see change within our country.